How to become an Au Pair
Complete Guide for South Africa & Namibia
Your Step-by-Step Journey to Working as an Au Pair in the Netherlands
Becoming an au pair is an exciting opportunity for personal growth, cultural exchange, and adventure. This guide walks you through exactly what it takes to become an au pair through The Au Pair.
Au Pair Requirements - Am I Eligible?
To become an au pair through The Au Pair, you must meet these requirements:
- You are South African or Namibian
- You are between 18 and 24 years old
- 'Letter op Impediment’ as proof that you are not married
- You will legalise your unabridged birth certificate with an apostille
- Did not stay illegally in The Netherlands
- You haven't provided false information or have otherwise withheld vital information when previously applying for a residence permit
- You have a valid passport
- You have experience with children and child care (babysitting etc)
- Unabridged birth certificate
- You will need a medical declaration that you are fit to work as au pair
- Did not have any previous residence permit for a cultural exchange
- Did not previously work for the host family, also not in another country
Common Questions About Becoming an Au Pair
Q: How much does an au pair earn?
A: Typical monthly salary in the Netherlands is €340, plus room and board. Exact amount discussed before placement.
Q: Do I need to speak Dutch?
A: English fluency is required. Dutch language skills help but aren’t required initially. Many au pairs learn Dutch during their stay.
Q: Is it safe to work as an au pair abroad?
A: Safety is our priority. We screen families thoroughly, provide 24/7 support, provide insurance, and maintain regular contact. You’re protected.
Q: What if the placement doesn’t work out?
A: We support you through difficulties with coaching and mediation. If termination is necessary, we follow proper procedures and assist your return home.
Q: Can I choose my host family?
A: We present potential matches and you can interview families. Final approval is yours.
Q: How many hours will I work?
A: Maximum 45 hours per week, typically including:
- -School drop-off/pick-upÂ
- Childcare while parents work
- Meal preparation – Light housework related to children
- Activity coordination
- Homework help
Q: Will I have days off?
A: Yes! At least 2 days per week (including one full weekend day), plus holidays as negotiated in your contract.
Q: Is there an age limit?
A: Typically 18-24 years old. In exceptional cases, we consider applicants slightly outside this range. Contact us to discuss.Â
Ready to Start Your Au Pair Journey?
The path to becoming an au pair is exciting and achievable. With The Au Pair's support, you'll have:
- Professional guidance through every step
- Clear expectations and timelines
- Ongoing support before, during, and after placement
- Access to a community of au pairs
- Genuine investment in your success
Next Steps:
- Check the requirements above—do you qualify?
- Gather your references and documents
- Register online or contact our team
- Schedule your first interview
- Begin your preparationÂ
- Start your au pair adventure!
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